Goss Family Reunion


Now that the Heart Walk is over, I can finally catch up on blogging. Here is the run down on our Goss Family Reunion (my Mom's side) that I helped plan in July. It was a blast to plan especially around so many people but sure was a lot of work :)

We held the reunion in Fairfield, CA (where I grew and where my Grandma Goss currently lives). Most of my cousins, aunts and uncles also lived in Fairfield at one time too. We decided that since it is hard for Grandma to travel, we would hold the reunion in Fairfield and plan it around her birthday (which is June 26). We purposely did not tell her that part though.

The last time we had a Goss Reunion was in 2011 in Las Vegas.

We had a fabulous turnout with my grandma and parents, of course, and all of my brothers and sisters and their families in attendance along with Aunt Lori and Uncle Ray, Aunt Liana and Uncle Peter and Jonathan, Uncle Larry and Aunt Joan, my cousins Shauna, Spencer, Erick, Jennae and their families.

Here was the official itinerary for the reunion I put together from suggested ideas:

































As you can see, we kicked off the reunion with dinner at BJ's on a Thursday night where we also celebrated my Aunt Lori's birthday. The official start was on Friday with a tour and lunch at the Jelly Belly Factory.

Here are photos at the Jelly Belly Factory:

All of us before we embarked on our tour. Notice Matt's head got cut off.
Rocky and little Alex
Nieces - Melodie and little Aria
Jack (nephew) got tired before we even got started

Tori and Bryan (my sis and bro-in-law) and others waiting to get started with our nerdy tour hats on

Melodie and Alex (in the stroller) - niece and nephew

Best bud cousins - Cody and Melodie  (nephew and niece)
Rocky, Aria, Danielle and Grandma

Aunt Joan, Uncle Larry, Uncle Peter, Grandma Goss, Aunt Liana, my cousin Jonathan and Melodie

Dylan (nephew), Paige (sis-in-law) and Kailey (niece)

Keri and cousin Danielle

Tori, Jack (apparently he had a question), Bryan hiding behind Alex, and my Mom

Sarah (sis-in-law), her newest Aria, Paige, my bros - Ryan and Rocky

Matt, Keri and brother Bo

The kids loved the Jelly Bell Tasting Station - especially the weird flavors as shown here

 After lunch we headed over to the Rockville Cemetery in Suisun where my Grandpa Goss is buried. My cousin Danielle made an awesome timeline on a sheet of his life and she shared information and photos about Grandpa Goss with the rest of us. Then my Grandma and my mom and her brother and sisters shared their favorite stories of Grandpa with the rest of us who didn't get to know him much or for the little kids - at all. It was such a special experience to get to hear about my Grandpa and learn about his life. Danielle did such a fabulous job!

Mom, Tori and Jack at Grandpa's headstone for a generational photo
Mel, Jack and Cody checking out the headstones

Danielle's timeline of Grandpa Goss' life (being held by my cousin Alma and Uncle Larry)


After the grave visit, we headed over to my Aunt Lori and Uncle Ray's home for a pool party which is always good times. I enjoyed laying around talking to Paige and Sarah while watching Matt and the boys throw a football around in the pool. And Ray and Lori spoiled us with all the watermelon we could eat.

Ryan, Matt, Rocky and Dylan fighting for the football

Matt, Dylan, Ryan and Rocky
Aria enjoying the grass by the pool
After the pool party we had our reunion kickoff party at the local institute building with dinner, music trivia, Rock Band and Karaoke. My mom, Tori and I each put together some music trivia for the others which was not easy when you know how much we like to argue. Several people were put in "the shame chair" for cheating off of their family members which was hilarious. I did music trivia questions, Tori did "Name That Tune" and my Mom did "Don't Forget the Lyrics" questions.

Then we put on some Rock Band for a bit, played pool and ping pong - even Grandma Goss got up and played. We then closed the night with karaoke which is always good times in my family. Somehow a family men's group was formed of Ryan, Rocky, Bo, and my cousin Erick and the rest of us enjoyed watching them sing their faces off. There is already talk of men's group reunion performance :)

Neil and Grandma Goss playing ping pong

Mel and Sarah singing  Barbie Girl I think

Rockband with Jackson on back-up mic

And the band was formed - Ryan, Rocky, Bo & Erick

Here they are singing "You've Lost That Lovin' Feelin"
Here are some vocals: https://www.facebook.com/video/embed?video_id=10200491753029384

The next day, we held our first Goss Family 5k Run and Walk around the Paradise Valley area. We planted Grandma at the finish line to cheer everyone on and give out breakfast. My little bro, Seth, kept her company and served as time keeper with Grandma (he had just broken his foot at a trampoline park). Then my parents set up a folding table and water at the halfway point along the way which is good because the little kids just made it halfway and ended up hanging out there.

Matt didn't quite make it up for the run which is a same but the rest of us had a blast despite the extremely hot weather. The 5K was a success and probably my favorite activity. I ran with some of Sarah's high-school age siblings and was pleased that I was able to keep up with them the whole time.

After I finished running, Josh and I drove around in his Hummer to cheer on the others and pick up any stragglers. It as fun seeing everyone out there - and imagine our surprise to find a bunch of kids at the water station. We threw them in the car and took them back to the finish line - and they loved rolling down the windows and cheering on their parents and siblings.

Even though it was a competitive event, of course, we did have to commend Josh for beating everybody considerably. My brothers were all big long-distance runners in high school and we have had much debate on which brother was fastest - this settled this for now.

My mom and I put together prizes for the top male and female and top girl and boy. The winning prizes were tall knee high socks that my mom had sewed little capes on them.


Grandma and Alex

All of us post-run/walk

Everybody lined up to start - notice Ryan and Rocky pushing each other out the way


After the fun run, we went to a park and had lunch and "Cousin Camp". My cousin, Erick, and his wife, Jaylynn, put on a bunch of " Minute to Win It" type games for all of us. We would have stayed there for hours but I had to grab volunteers to help us set up at the church for Grandma's birthday party.

Matt trying to eat the donut off the string without using his hands or arms

Ryan & Josh watching Bo go crazy on his donut. Bo attacked the donut like a beast and struggled to get a handle on his donut. He had all of us rolling on the grass laughing. Cody felt sorry for him not getting his donut so he ended up stepping and pulling it off the string and handing it to Bo. Cutest thing ever!

The classic water balloon toss

Erick "the pro" trying to show us how easy the cup hat game was

Spencer's boy, Quentin, trying to eat a gummy bear off a pencil

The cup hat game had everyone puzzled 

Nobody was exempt from the donut game. Here I am trying to attack my own donut along with Jaylynn, Jennae and Quentin.

Neil, Erick & Bo (watching in awe)

The water balloon toss

It was hard to pull Rocky away from Aria

The twins - Bo & Josh

Rocky attempting the cup hat game

Quentin, Mel and Dylan 

The first round of the donut game with fierce competitors - Bo, Rocky, Josh (wearing one of my dad's old work suits for fun) and Ryan

That night, we put on a surprise western-themed Birthday Celebration for Grandma at my parent's church building. She knew we were having a party but she didn't know it was for her and that we had invited about 50 of her friends.

But first we cleaned ourselves up and took family photos:


The Goss family


Lori and Ray's family 

The OG Adams'

The twins sylin

Bo and Josh again

Erick & Jaylynn's family

Jonathan, Aunt Liana & Uncle Peter

Spencer's family and Shauna (his twin)


Jennae's family


The full Adams Family 



KerMatt

Spencer's family again

Erick's family again

Bryan & Tori's family

Grandma and her daughters


Ryan & Paige's family

Bryan & Tori's family again

Grandma's party started out with dinner then we had a musical program emceed by my dad. Here is the program:



We tried to have the program centered around music that my Grandma would know. We couldn't have the program without mom and her sisters singing. And we even talked Grandma into coming up and leading everyone in singing "Back in the Saddle". Melodie did an adorable tap number, Bo sang his heart out and then Tori and Bryan played an AMAZING viola & piano duet. I've actually never heard Bryan play his viola so I was pleased that he agreed to do so and he silenced the whole room. Tori is the only child in our family who actually has stuck with piano through the years and she played beautifully. I think she even inspired Seth to want to pick up piano playing again. Lori played her flute to the "Star Spangled Banner" while my mom accompanied her on the piano and my brothers, Matt and Dylan sang a song from one of our family's favorite musicals "The Music Man". I helped them put the number together and they were great and really looked like they were having fun. Kailey played the piano making my mom proud and then Tori and I did a medley of "Singing in the Rain", "Put on a Happy Face" and "You Are My Sunshine". Tori and I are so used to singing together from our childhood so it was easy for us to throw that together. We ended the program having everyone sing "Home on the Range" and then Grandma said a few words thanking everyone for coming. You could tell she was so happy and thankful for her party.

After dessert we moved Grandma over to the photo area we set up and had everyone come over and take western photos with her. She loved it!

Bo and Grandma

Matt, Grandma and I

Us being tough

Grandma and her baby girl, Lori

Bo, Grandma and Josh 

Grandma and the twins again

Grandma and her girls

Ryan (looking like ZZ Top), Paige, Kailey, Cody (adorable), Grandma and Dylan

Neil, Spencer, Daria, Grandma and Ethan

The man formerly known as my Dad with Grandma

Dad, Grandma and Mom
The next day we went to church together and were planning on barbecuing but the cold, damp weather ruined those plans. So we ended up having lunch and many of the families went home. The rest of us went out and played soccer for a little bit and then up back at my parents to hang out. After so many activities I think we were all pretty tired. But it was so fun to spend time together and catch up on everyone's life.

We concluded the ruin on Monday morning with a hike at Rockville Park. Only a few of the families were still left and we ended hiking more than we intended but we loved it! It was the perfect ending to a wonderful weekend and family reunion.

After that we all said goodbye and went home. We took Paige back to San Jose with us because she was flying out from there. It was nice to have the time with her still and to show her around the South Bay a little bit. Matt even took us to dinner at Google.

Love my family and the fun times we have together!

Girls Weekend in the City

In July, my college girlfriends came out to San Francisco for a quick weekend of fun... and our favorite thing together - a Justin Timberlake concert. Well actually, if it was the whole *N'Sync group that would have been even better, but JT is a close second :).

Seven friends flew out on Thursday and left that Saturday, which created a whirlwind of fun. I wished they could have stayed longer, but since it was in the middle of Heart Walk season, I was already exhausted before it even began.

Anna and I were the first to arrive and met up at the Westin Hotel in the Financial District, where we were going to be staying. We walked around trying to fnd somewhere for her to find lunch and then settled into our room. The other girls all flew into Oakland and took the BART over the Bay, which was an adventure (apparently) for these hot, blonde, white girls. Apparently, they felt a little out of place in Oakland.

Laura arrived next from Southern California so Anna and I walked over to the BART station to pick her up, then we headed to H&M and Banana Republic to do some shopping, but not before stopping at the concierge to get some dinner recommendations. An hour later or so, Jodi, Darlene, and Amanda all came in from Las Vegas and we met them at the BART station. Then we all headed back to the hotel to meet up with Jami, who drove down from the northernmost part of California.

We barely had enough time to put their luggage away before Tiffany arrived from Danville to have dinner with us. Luckily she had her big SUV, which we all crammed into. Unfortunately, Briauna's flight had been delayed so instead of coming in at the same time as the Vegas crew, she didn't get in until after dinner. Poor girl!

Amanda, Tiffany, Jodi, Jami, Darlene, Anna, Laura and I (yes, I am the only non-blonde)

Anna and Laura

Jami, Darlene, Anna and Laura

Me, Tiffany, Jodi and Amanda

We had a blast catching up at dinner and reminiscing about the old days. We also tried to plan out the rest of the weekend which is no easy task with so many people. The other girls really wanted to do a Segway tour, but Tiffany and I tried to convince them that something like the Go Car Tours would be better. Luckily, with our powers of persuasion we were able to do so, which we all now know was the better choice :) Not that Segways wouldn't have been fun either, but you can see so much more with the little cars.

After dinner, Briauna finally arrived, and we drove over to pick her up. Then Tiffany drove us all down Lombard Street and dropped us off at a karaoke bar that the concierge had recommended. Now, I've been in a lot of karaoke bars in my life, ranging from dive to dazzling, but I can honestly say this bar was the worst one EVER.

Nighttime at Lombard Street finally with Briauna



The place was filthy, mildewy, and the karaoke books smelled like poop. What was even worse, we sat next to a fan covered in the biggest dust bunnies I've ever seen. Trying to make the best of it, we put in a couple songs, even though by this point everyone was crashing. And we waited... and waited...and waited... while the other five people in there sang one lame song after another.

Finally, we got called up and we all sang Justin Bieber's "Baby" together and danced our butts off. Laura busted out the Ludacris rap part so well she amazed even me and I still can't hear that song without smiling. After we finished, we waited around again only to find out that the bartender was not going to play anymore of our songs until we bought alcohol. Hater! That was enough for us, so we left and headed back to the hotel, which was probably good because I was so tired - at this point it was like 3 am!

Me, Anna, and Jami dancing at the karaoke bar

One thing I learned during the trip is that I'm weak when it comes to sleep deprivation next to all of these moms :) I need my eight hours, and I was dying without it. I had high hopes of going running each morning with Briauna but I couldn't even find the energy to answer her phone calls to tell her no.

The next day, I booked us a Go Car tour and we headed down to Fisherman's Wharf to begin. After a lengthy period of paperwork and training, we paired off into cars, took lots of photos, and then hit the road in our little road warriors. Matt and I had rented these little cars in San Diego years ago and loved them! They have a built-in GPS-guided storytelling system. Though you can also turn off the GPS guide and just listen to music. We decided not to pay the $5 or $10 extra for the faster cars, which we should have done. We might have been fine if two of the cars were not so slow compared to the others. Jamie and I had the lead and had to keep pulling over to let Jodi, Darlene, Amanda, and Anna catch up.


Our Go Car crew - me and Jami, Briauna and Laura, Jodi and Amanda, Anna and Darlene


Anna and Darlene


We drove through the wharf, then along the coast near the Maritime park, and the swanky Marina. We had to keep stopping, of course, to take group photos. We asked the same runner to take our photo several times as we just happened to catch him along our tour. Next, we continued along the coast to a view of the Golden Gate Bridge. We were having so much we decided to keep going down to the Presidio, then to South Beach (which I've never been to but is gorgeous), and into Golden Gate Park - which was BEAUTIFUL!

A pitstop at the Marina



Jami and I being the Golden Gate Bridge
Enjoying the view



Another pit stop

Pulling off the road while waiting for the slowpokes

At Golden Gate Park


After this, we realized we were running late - so I tried to get us on a shortcut (off the easy, flat path and through the busy city streets, going up and down the hills). The route was shorter, but the map hadn't shown us the hills we'd be going up and down (not quickly navigated with cars that only go up to 35 miles per hour). Luckily, most other cars were pretty forgiving - we slowly climbed our ways up the hills and they would get stuck behind us. Jami and I had a blast laughing at the whole scenario, while blasting 90's music from our tinny car radio.

In an unexpected move and a perfect ending to our tour , somehow I led us down the exact part of Lombard Street that is most popular. We were quite a sight in our caravan of tiny cars, weaving down the crooked street. The schmucks footing it down the street loved it, laughing and yelling out cheers! We got some awesome photos too from the bottom of the street looking up at the rest of the "sea of yellow".

Coming down the hills


After we turned our cars back in, we went through another round of endless paperwork. We were STARVING and headed over to Boudin for lunch who is famous for their clam chowder and bread bowls. On the way to Boudin, we all bought scarves or beanies from a street vendor to prepare for the concert that night. Then, we fought our way through the crowds, and seagulls, at Boudin and finally sat down to eat for the day.

Finally eating lunch!

Amanda, Darlene, Laura, and Jami


By the time we finished lunch, it was time to head back to the hotel to get ready for the concert. Since we had a hard time finding taxis, we started walking. Finally, we grabbed a taxi and those who hadn't showered headed back. The rest of us ended up walking a couple more miles before finding another taxi. We got back exhausted but had to also prepare for the concert.

The concert was taking place at Candlestick Park, and having been told by concierge that traffic was going to be a nightmare, we headed out in two different cars two hours before the concert - to ensure we got there in time. Somehow, we really didn't have much traffic until we got to Candlestick. Then we sat, for what felt like forever, in the parking line. After paying $40 (yes $40!) to park inside, I was directed by the attendants to park right next to a group of porta-potties. And not just near the honeybuckets, but literally right next to them where a line of people were standing to use the toilets. As Laura tried to argue with the parking attendant, that we don't want to park in front of "the crappers", I fought through the line of people with the nose of my car trying to force them to move, so I could park. It was the most ridiculous situation. On one hand we have the parking attendant yelling that we have no other choice, those of us in the car angry that we just paid $40 to park in front of toilets, and then we have people in line yelling at us for taking their spot to line up. And seriously, who can not wait to use the restroom inside the stadium!

The car that didn't have to park by the poopers


We made the best of the situation though, laughing our heads off, especially when Laura rolled down her window and started offering people hand sanitizer as they walked out of the porta-johns. People actually accepted it and were rather happy to have it! That is, until some pothead girl asked if we had put marijuana in the sanitizer.

At that point, we decided it was time to stop people-watching and head into the stadium. We joined up with the others girls and then we waited and waited and waited for Justin to come onstage. Finally, a DJ came out and started playing music, so we danced our hearts out again for another hour until Justin finally decided to join the party.

Heading to our seats at "The Stick"


Found this photo on Star 101.3's website and still can't stop laughing at Jami's hand placement!

Overall it was really cool to see Justin and Jay-Z perform together. You could tell they were having a lot of fun. But, in some ways, I was also disappointed - mostly because my expectations had been clearly misguided. I assumed that Justin was going to be headlining the concert with Jay-Z as opener. Not having been to a true rap concert, besides the Nelly concert in Orem, UT, (which I don't think counts), I wasn't sure what to expect.

In reality most of the people at that concert were there for Jay-Z... not JT! I should have known better, especially in the Bay Area. Alas I hadn't and felt a bit disappointed, especially when it seemed to have changed the dynamic of the whole concert. First of all, I've never smelled so much pot in my life! And then, JT didn't do much dancing. Probably because he knew most of this crowd wouldn't appreciate it. Now I actually like some of Jay-Z's songs. But I didn't think he made for a very exciting concert and then all his songs started sounding the same.

Getting ready for the concert to start

Throughout the concert, Justin would sing a song or two and then Jay-Z would do a song or two himself, while Justin played an instrument of sorts. Then, they would do a song together and Justin would start over again by himself. The concert ended with JT & Jay-Z singing "Forever Young" as a tribute to Trayvon Martin. Really?! I mean it's a nice gesture, but a little too political for me.

All in all I enjoyed seeing Justin perform - especially with my girls. We always used to love going dancing and since we didn't get a chance to do more of that during our trip, this worked out well.

After the concert, we sat in the parking lot for hours talking. Then we battled our way out and didn't get back to downtown SF until midnight. Laura and I walked to a local diner to grab some food while the rest of the girls headed back to the hotel.

The next morning Briauna was flying out early. So she woke us up to grab some breakfast together and to shop in Chinatown. We all headed out and strolled through Chinatown until the girls all had to leave for the airport. Then Anna and I headed back to check out of the hotel and I dropped her at Golden Gate Park to do some exploring on her own while I headed home to sleep!

I hate goodbyes 

Such a short trip with my girls but still a blast! I have so many amazing friends, but there is nothing like my college friends who struggled through the single dating life with me. We all agreed that we need to plan another trip soon. Probably not in SF again, which was too cold - especially in July!

Time for an update

Wow - we've been kinda bad about blogging since we've started our new jobs.

So since our last blog in March, we have moved into a brand new townhome in Sunnyvale that Matt and I are both in love with. Matt found the townhome by posting on a housing list at Google and I had to do most of the packing myself during my 3 days off between leaving SVCF and starting at AHA because Matt was on a work trip in Vegas. Yeah most people get time off to relax but not me and I was not happy about it.
Our new complex

Thanks to help from friends and family, somehow we were able to pull the move off but I must say we were both exhausted before moving day even began. We had our core movers of my parents and our faithful friend, Tom Abbott, and then we had help from our previous ward and our new ward. And again we moved during General Conference weekend for the second year in a row.

No one was thrilled about the fact that our new place has three different levels but somehow we moved quickly and Matt and I have been slowly trying to put our home back together again while also getting acclimated to our new jobs. We hope we don't have to move again for several years.

Another view of our townhomes
Our new home has fabulous amenities including Matt's fave - a theater room that sits about 20 - 24 people in the clubhouse. He loves to get his buddies together, order pizza, and watch basketball there. Seriously it's like his new man cave. 

During the move we finally got rid of the couch and love seat I bought on Craigslist when I moved back to Utah in 2008. Their time had come, so we ended up buying a fabulous grey sectional from some wholesalers in Hollister. We feel so adult now having our grown-up couch! :)
A photo of our new couch
(except we did not get the matching ottoman)

Matt is LOVING his job at Google and fitting in well there. Besides his usual work, he plays on a volleyball, basketball, ultimate frisbee, laser tag, and flag football team around campus. Several of his coworkers call him coach because of his hard work in putting together and managing several of these teams and his knack for teaching others. Matt even made a little coach Android guy to go on his nameplate. He also recently got to hear 49er Head Coach Jim Harbaugh speak at Google.

In May, Google had a Parent's Day and Matt's dad was kind enough to fly up here to attend. Matt had a blast showing Lane the Google campus and Lane asked repeatedly how anyone got any work done but I think during Parent's Day, they did a pretty good job answering that question.

We are loving getting to try out new Google products and help do studies for new projects. Right now I'm typing this blog on a Google Chromebook Matt borrowed for the weekend for me to try out since my laptop's motherboard recently died.

As for my work at the American Heart Association, I feel like I never left and have enjoyed picking up where I left off. Fundraising in the Silicon Valley is much more exciting and easier than fundraising in Utah. I am having fun getting to know my new co-workers while still regularly getting together with my former SVCF friends for karaoke, country dancing or dinner. I have also recruited several as logistics volunteers to plan the Heart Walk. Learning to be a manager has been a bit of surprise to me and has been more challenging than expected. I am certainly more appreciative of those who have had to manage me.
Me at the Silicon Valley Heart Ball
(held at the private estate of the CEO of Citrix)

The health of KerMatt has not been 100% in the past few months which is probably our only complaint. Since leaving SVCF, I have been experiencing horrible headaches daily and have been unable to wear my contacts on a regular basis due to my eyes being inflamed most likely from allergies/sinus infections. I have been seeing an allergist and my eye doctor on an almost weekly basis because of these and have been frustrated at the lack of solutions or answers for these ailments. I have tested negative for the regular allergy tests but the doctor is not willing to rule them out. I've been on several different medications including almost a month of antibiotics and had a sinus CT scan to no avail. We are also trying some migraine medicine and I'm having a second set of allergy testing this week. I'm hopeful we'll find a solution soon because I'm so tired of being grumpy. :) The allergist also wants me to start doing an elimination diet to make sure I don't have a food allergy but naturally I've been dragging my feet on that one.

Matt finally had a much-needed visit with the Endocrinologist who switched his regular Thyroid prescription and did an ultrasound of his thyroid and found a large nodule growing on it. The new prescription only made him more tired so Matt is switching back. The doctor also did a biopsy of the nodule to make sure it wasn't cancerous, and it was not thankfully. Matt also saw a Gastroenterologist and found he had another recurrence of the small intestine bacterial overgrowth which was causing him severe stomach pain. So after another round of antibiotics for him, Matt's stomach is finally feeling much better.

All in all, we have much to be thankful for and are able to function fine regardless of this silliness. We recently got callings in our new ward - Matt to be the ward moving coordinator (probably due to his awesome moving coordination emails) and I was called to teach the 4-year-olds in Primary. I am thrilled as I have enjoyed teaching the Sunbeams and the 4-year-olds should be more used to Primary. After being in Primary for the past couple years, I have had such a difficult time this past month sitting through Sunday school and Relief Society. Seriously I think I inherited the attention span of the Sunbeams. :)

Since our last blog, Matt and I both turned 32 and we celebrated our 4 year anniversary! We also recently helped put on a family reunion for my mother's side of the family (that will be it's own blog).

Love you all and hope you all know how much we wish the best for you!

KerMatt